Spicing it up...

For those of you that have been in long term relationships, what do you do to keep it spicy in the bedroom. Sometimes day to day tasks can prove to put a strain on relationships. Is there a way this can be avoided? As women should we model new lingerie or a new pair of shoes... What about men, what can they do to spice it up?

Or is it the inevitable that relationships will become a little boring in the bedroom?

Video Vixen....coming right up

So there's Buffie the Body, Amber Rose, and my ex-husband's favorite Melyssa Ford. Now I can't take ANYTHING away from these ladies, they are ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!!  For a matter of fact, once I finish typing this blog I will probably go and get about 45 minutes of cardio in, SO I CAN FEEL VIXEN'ISH...

But fellas, do you realize every woman is not a Video Vixen? Although, many of us probably think we are after we have had two shots of Patron, while dancing to Juvenile's "Back That Thang Up"... Oh ok...now I am ONLY telling on myself.

This subject came to me after a very dear friend asked me, "Dee, why do most guys want the Vixens?" Now I couldn't answer the question because of course, I am not a guy. The young lady that asked the question is a beautiful person inside and out.  So why would a beautiful young lady ask this question? Is it safe to say that maybe it is the men she has encountered or dealt with? I doubt it...

 I have read several relationship books and they all have pretty summarized that men are visual beings. So what is it, do you guys only see the Extraordinary? Which is so unfair, because most men are Ordinary. Now you may have the "souped-up ride" and the wardrobe to match... But really most of you are NOT as fine as Ildris, do NOT have the Denzel strut, and certainly can NOT hang a suit like Morris... We don't look for those qualities in you. Ok, that's a lie, but once we realize THOSE QUALITIES ARE NOT THERE ... we get over it. WE LOVE YOU...and your ordinary-ness.

 So turn off the videos and look at the VIXEN that is sitting next to you. For a matter of fact, ask her to do a little dance for you. She's been dying to show you what she learned in her Pole Dance Class anyway...

Love Ya' To Pieces,
Dee

Trying to Understand Mars: He always look at that type...

Trying to Understand Mars: He always look at that type...: "What is it about the 'redbone' that the brothas love? I mean they do double-takes and doggone near wreck their cars if a red-bone is walking..."

He always look at that type...

What is it about the "redbone" that the brothas love? I mean they do double-takes and doggone near wreck their cars if a red-bone is walking by.

Now, I am not hating on the Beyonces, or Keri Hilsons, or even the Rhiannas of the world. Shoot if you got it work it...

I have been told it stems back to slavery days (you know "house ninja" versus "field ninja"0. Is that really true?

Surely modern day brothas are not that shallow.

So what is it???